Take the Free Becoming Us Marriage Assessment to
Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary, we will show you exactly how to align your communication using the Gospel and the Enneagram.
Your conversations will go from unspoken thoughts
to deep understanding so you both
feel cherished and loved.
by using the Enneagram as a Tool along with the Truth of the Gospel, You'll Experience Love Like Never Before
Use the healing power of aligned communication to feel exceptionally connected to your spouse.
Use your spouse's preferred communication style to voice your needs and develop more balance in your relationship.
When you feel treasured, the passion in your marriage will reignite in a way that will surprise you both!
Learn how to use Christ's love for you and your spouse to rapidly go from hurting to happy when conflict creeps back into your life.
Your customized plan includes how to align these
6 key areas of your marriage so you can quickly
move from feeling frustrated to fulfilled.
Discover the 4 Core Motivations driving you and your spouse's thoughts, feelings, and actions. These are the keys to understanding how you communicate in your marriage.
Learn how Christ meets your needs (not your spouse) so you can align your marriage with the Gospel. This will allow you to truly experience God working in your heart and your marriage.
Your Enneagram type reveals how you like to give and receive communication. You will learn how to use both your types to communicate deeply with your spouse.
Uncover how you interpreted childhood messages through the lens of your Enneagram type and how they are impacting communication with your spouse today.
You'll understand how your and your spouse's Enneagram types approach conflict so you can stop avoiding difficult conversations and create more harmony in your marriage.
Discover how to encourage yourself and your spouse (without pushing them) to grow in the path that God has intended for you, your spouse, and your marriage.
You’ll be asked a series of questions about your marriage, including how you communicate, how you bring God into your relationship, and your background.
It will take between 5-10 minutes for you to complete the questions on any device you are on, including your phone.
When you're finished with the assessment, you'll have the option to send your spouse an email asking them to take the assessment.
Asking your spouse to take the assessment will give you much better insight into the specifics of your marriage so you can get the results you crave faster.
We'll wait for your spouse to take the assessment before sending the results to both of you.
If you choose not to have your spouse take the assessment, you'll still get great results! You simply won't know where your spouse stands on the issues asked in the assessment.
Dive into your results to understand where you and your spouse are misaligned and aligned in your communication. We know that this will more than likely bring up some conflicting view points.
But, don't worry! We'll give you exact instructions on how to take the differences and use them to improve your marriage!
After growing through 24 years of marital ups and downs, there's nothing this duo loves more than coming alongside couples - armed with the Enneagram and the Gospel - to offer a better way to live and grow, together.
They've worked hard to create an entire platform to improve your marriage based on the Enneagram and the Gospel. So, if an assessment isn't your thing, check out their book, Becoming Us, their live events, and the custom online courses for each couple type.
Get a deep understanding of how your marital communication "dance" plays out every day with you and your spouse's Enneagram types and the Gospel.
Join Beth & Jeff for a date night that will begin the communication between you and your spouse on how your marriage can improve with the Enneagram and the Gospel.