Take the Free Becoming Us Marriage Assessment to

Discover the Direct Path to Honest and Productive Communication in
Your Marriage

Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary, we will show you exactly how to align your communication using the Gospel and the Enneagram. 

Your conversations will go from unspoken thoughts
deep understanding so you both
feel cherished and loved.


Get the Marriage You Crave

by using the Enneagram as a Tool along with the Truth of the Gospel,
You'll Experience Love Like Never Before

Feel Connected

Use the healing power of aligned communication to feel exceptionally connected to your spouse.

Become Balanced

Use your spouse's preferred communication style to voice your needs and develop more balance in your relationship.

Reignite Passion

When you feel treasured, the passion in your marriage will reignite in a way that will surprise you both!

Grow in the Gospel

Learn how to use Christ's love for you and your spouse to rapidly go from hurting to happy when conflict creeps back into your life.


Your & Your Spouse's Responses along with your Enneagram Types will Reveal
Your Personalized Plan

Your customized plan includes how to align these 
6 key areas of your marriage so you can quickly 
move from feeling frustrated to fulfilled.

Your Core Motivations

Discover the 4 Core Motivations driving you and your spouse's thoughts, feelings, and actions. These are the keys to understanding how you communicate in your marriage.

Your Gospel Alignment

Learn how Christ meets your needs (not your spouse) so you can align your marriage with the Gospel. This will allow you to truly experience God working in your heart and your marriage. 

Your Communication Styles

Your Enneagram type reveals how you like to give and receive communication. You will learn how to use both your types to communicate deeply with your spouse.

Your Childhood Impact

Uncover how you interpreted childhood messages through the lens of your Enneagram type and how they are impacting communication with your spouse today.

Your Conflict Styles

You'll understand how your and your spouse's Enneagram types approach conflict so you can stop avoiding difficult conversations and create more harmony in your marriage.

Your Big Marriage Dreams

Discover how to encourage yourself and your spouse (without pushing them) to grow in the path that God has intended for you, your spouse, and your marriage.

How Do You Get Your
Personalized Marriage Plan?

You'll Answer a Few Questions

You’ll be asked a series of questions about your marriage, including how you communicate, how you bring God into your relationship, and your background.

It will take between 5-10 minutes for you to complete the questions on any device you are on, including your phone.

Send it to Your Spouse (or not, it's your choice)

When you're finished with the assessment, you'll have the option to send your spouse an email asking them to take the assessment.

Asking your spouse to take the assessment will give you much better insight into the specifics of your marriage so you can get the results you crave faster.

We'll wait for your spouse to take the assessment before sending the results to both of you.

If you choose not to have your spouse take the assessment, you'll still get great results! You simply won't know where your spouse stands on the issues asked in the assessment.

Use Your Personalized Results along with Our Guidance to Improve Your Marriage

Dive into your results to understand where you and your spouse are misaligned and aligned in your communication. We know that this will more than likely bring up some conflicting view points.

But, don't worry! We'll give you exact instructions on how to take the differences and use them to improve your marriage!

Who Created the Becoming Us
Marriage Assessment?

Meet Beth & Jeff McCord

After growing through 24 years of marital ups and downs, there's nothing this duo loves more than coming alongside couples - armed with the Enneagram and the Gospel - to offer a better way to live and grow, together.

They've worked hard to create an entire platform to improve your marriage based on the Enneagram and the Gospel. So, if an assessment isn't your thing, check out their book, Becoming Us, their live events, and the custom online courses for each couple type

You've Never Experienced Clarity Like This


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