Treat Yourself to a Focused Weekend Away and
Coming Spring 2020 at Pursell Farms in Sylacauga, Alabama
Beth & Jeff designed this retreat for you and your spouse to breakthrough communication barriers over the weekend and then equip you with everything you need to continue the transformation at home.
Using the power of the Enneagram along with the truth of the Gospel, Beth and Jeff will help uncover places in your marriage where there could be potential pitfalls or missed communication.
You know, those places you usually don’t like to notice or have not figured out how to navigate by yourselves.
Then Beth and Jeff will show proven tools and techniques they use in their marriage and other marriages they've helped to change the conflict and communication from unhealthy to healthy.
Located deep in the heart of Alabama, Pursell Farms is a pristine, 3,500-acre destination is rated 5 stars on TripAdvisor, Google, & Facebook.
When you're at the farm, you will experience the scenic beauty of nature, mingled with the rich heritage and friendly warmth of the deep South.
For your accommodations, you'll choose between a King Suite, King Room, or a Two Queen Room. Each has furnishings and decorative touches personally selected by Ellen Pursell, to welcome you with a blend of understated elegance and cozy comforts.
It’s like coming home, if by home you envision deep sofas worthy of naps, books and mementos that inspire conversation and transformation.
Your retreat experience includes all the meals during your stay, from dinner Friday night to lunch on Sunday.
Inspired by the surrounding farmland and all that grows and grazes upon it, the Pursell Farm chefs have crafted seasonal menus that celebrate classic, southern cuisine combined with farm fresh ingredients to make each dish uniquely Pursell Farms. We are excited to share them with you!
Create new memories with your spouse!
Select one of the following amazing adventures to experience on Saturday afternoon:
After each training session with Beth and Jeff, you and your spouse will have personal time to reflect and discuss what you've just learned.
Then, you'll come back into a small group session with a certified Your Enneagram Coach (hand-picked by Beth and Jeff) to guide you and your spouse through any difficulties that came up during your personal time.
These sessions ensure that you and your spouse know exactly how to change your communication dance so you go home with the tools you need to continue the transformation you start this weekend.
Deepen your understanding of what you're discovering about yourself and your marriage with this guide designed for you and your spouse to use at the retreat and when you go home.
You'll have a space to write out your thoughts, so what you're learning makes new connections in your brain to allow you to easily remember the changes you're making as life throws new adventures into your relationship.
Leave room in your suitcase because you'll be going home with a few extras to help you remember your marriage transformation time at the farm!
We will email you access to our Becoming Us At Home Program so you can revisit any part of the learning you need when you get back to your daily life. All you need is access to the Internet!
The program includes:
8 Short Videos on Topics Covered at the Retreat – each video is less than 25 minutes and will deepen your understanding of the things you learned at the retreat. Use these to refresh your learning as you continue your transformation at home.
"From Confrontation to Caring" Communication Formula – you'll get the simple 4-step formula to know what words to use when
Fighting Well – you'll know exactly how to repair and recover after a fight with your spouse
Enneagram Enhanced Parenting Plan – you'll uncover how your Enneagram type affects your parenting so you can be a more loving and understanding parent
Discovering You – you'll discover even more details to your and your spouse's Enneagram types
...And Much, Much More
Plan to arrive on Friday afternoon by 3 pm for check-in and registration.
Then, get dressed up and let us pamper you for date night!
We’ll start with a special gift, then move onto a farm-to-table dinner.
You'll get to know the other couples at the retreat and then dive into the core motivations for your types with
Beth & Jeff!
We’ll start with a delicious breakfast buffet and then dive right into your marriage’s dance and the gospel!
Beth and Jeff will lead you through several activities to make sure you fully understand how to change your marital dances.
Then, you’ll get time to discuss with your spouse, a few other couples, and a hand-picked coach to make sure your dance is actually changing!
After a scrumptious lunch, Beth and Jeff will be working with you on the conflict in your marriage.
This session will allow you to stop avoiding difficult conversations and create more harmony in your marriage.
You'll get to practice with your spouse and then return to a small group with a hand-picked coach to help with any communication issues that are happening.
You’ll get to spend some one-on-one time with your spouse as you enjoy one of the many activities Pursell Farms has to offer guests!
Choose between shooting, fishing, yoga, spa, golf, UTV, hike, horseback riding, cooking lessons, bikes and more!
This is a time to create special memories with your spouse that will draw you closer to each other.
After your flavorful farm-to-table dinner, you’ll be back with Beth and Jeff to learn all about how to move your communication dance from misaligned to aligned!
Then head over to the bonfire for scrumptious s’mores and a relaxing night under the stars, chatting with Beth, Jeff, & your new friends.
You'll savor spending time in God's beautiful country with people that want to improve themselves and their marriage.
Enjoy a bountiful buffet breakfast before today’s session of Beth and Jeff walking you through dreaming big as a couple!
This time is designed to help you really solidify your discoveries while on the retreat and make sure they last once you are home and back in the daily details of life.
You won’t want to miss it!
Check-out of the hotel is at 1 pm.
November 8 -10, 2019 at Pursell Farms, deep in the heart of Alabama
+ Complete Retreat Package
+ Private suite with a king bed
Only 5 Rooms Left
+ Complete Retreat Package
+ Private room with a king bed
Only 14 Rooms Left
World-class Enneagram training from Beth & Jeff, extensive small group coaching sessions, luxury accommodations, farm-to-table meals for the entire length of the retreat, time alone with your spouse, all activities, surprises and delights, and the Becoming Us at Home program.
Plan to be at Pursell Farms by 3 pm on Friday, November 8th for registration and check-in.
The retreat ends at noon on Sunday, November 10th. Check out is 1 pm.
Friday night we are having date night so prepare to dress up!
Other than that, casual attire is perfect!
The average weather is a high 70° and a low of 43° for this time of year so plan accordingly!
Also, don't forget to pack appropriate attire for the activity you've chosen.
That would be wonderful! We've arranged for you to get a lower rate if you want to extend your stay.
To get the lower rate, simply call Pursell Farms at 1-877-292-3276, tell them you're with the Becoming Us Retreat and let them know how long you'd like to extend your stay.
Your retreat package includes:
If you have any dietary restrictions/preferences, we're happy to accommodate you!
After you've booked your retreat, please email us at [email protected] and let us know your restrictions/preferences. We will make sure to get you the meals you need.
We're happy to accommodate you!
After you've booked your retreat, please email us at [email protected] and let us know your restrictions/preferences.
We will make sure to get you the meals you need.
Because of the nature of the event, we are not able to offer refunds.
However, if you would like to transfer your ticket to someone else, please contact us at [email protected] and we can help you.
Birmingham-Shuttlesworth (BHM) airport is 50 miles away.
There’s also Sylacauga Municipal Airport (SCD), a city-owned public-use airport, is 8 miles away.
There is plenty of complimentary parking at Pursell Farms for your vehicle, even if it is an RV or a bus!
Because we want you to take this time away to focus on your marriage, this retreat is for adults only.